Monthly Archives: October 2015

You might be thinking that adult friends are great. I mean, on paper, what’s not to love about having friends that you can have sex with whenever you want? Similarly, if they feel really horny, or if they feel lonely, they can just pick up the phone and get together with you.

It seems like it’s a good idea on paper, but the problem is a lot of the things that look good on paper, or makes sense intellectually, get really complicated when we try to act them out. This is definitely the case with adult friends. If you go into that particular situation with the wrong assumptions and expectations, chances are you would have the same level of luck with your adult friends like most guys. What luck am I talking about? Bad luck, seriously. A lot of the times, when they develop these types of friends, it ends up harming them at some point down the road.

You have to remember that a lot of women can say, “Well, I can understand that; I can separate my body from my emotions; I can be your fuck friend”. Well, they can put on a good show because they really like you and would want to emotionally be involved with you at a deeper level and they can put up with a lot of stuff, but when the rubber meets the road, a lot of the times, they break down. Most of the time, they get all emotional once they discover that you have developed other fuck buddies.

So it’s really important to make sure that you are clear regarding the concept of adult friends. This way you can put together a systematic and methodical strategy that would work in your particular situation.